The road to Motherhood…
the struggles i'm facing… the chances i'm taking… sometimes might knock me down… But no, I'm not breaking…Who am I?
Heyyyo.. not much i can say about my self. I’ve been blessed with so many good things in this world… some of them are a very loving parents, 2 younger sisters, 1 older brother, and a very GREAT and handsome 😉 husband. I can’t really say where i leave at the moment, as i’ve been juggling a lot between Jatiwaringin (Jakarta,Indonesia) & Surbiton (London, UK). I’ve been spending most of my time these days in Jakarta, but don’t get surprised if you find me in London on some other days. My husband and I have one dream, a BIG HAPPY family. While my husband is working hard in London to support our dream from financial side, I have to go through some treatments in Jakarta to fulfill the same dream but from different side -getting our family BIGger and bring new member to our family.
I used to make my self very busy by dedicating my time for work, career, study, and of course my not YET big family that consist of my self and my husband only -hopefully not for a very long time. But now, I’ve given up everything *well except my husband* :grin:, so that i can concentrate on our baby project which only God knows when it’s going to Go Live. It’s a tough project i must say… compare to all other projects that i’ve been in my whole career :smile:.
Other thing that I adore very much -besides my husband-, is COOKING. It has started since i got married and moved overseas which made me has to cook my own indonesian food. I started it with knowing nothing, but now i’m quite advanced and loving every single minute of it very much. And moreover, people LOVE my food!! 😉 COFFEE is another thing. I can’t be separated from this black liquid. I’m so addicted to it!!
Few other things that are related to my self are; University of Leeds, Fasilkom UI, SMUN 8 Jakarta (Smandel), Accenture, Shell UK, Shell EP Blueprint. Those are places and people who has turned me into who i am today.
So that’s it…. oh yeah, my name is Nitya. Although my closed friends usually call me ‘nitiko’, ‘tiko’, or ‘nyi-nyit’, don’t carried away with that terms!! it is still ‘nitya’ after all. In the entire blog you will find me referring to my husband as ‘DH’ which stands for ‘Dear Hubby’, or ‘MIKU’ which stands for ‘Suamiku’.
Oh ya one more thing, sorry for the inconvenience if i mixed up indonesian and english words/sentences in my entire writings!
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hi nitya… nice to read your stories. we have the same problems though. i’ve been married for 2.5 years and still waiting for babies… the problem is quite the same : PCO. just keep on praying, okay 🙂
hai nit, seneng banget baca blog kamu, kamu pinter nulisnya, aku juga lagi TTC, udah merit 5 taon juga.. tapi blom pernah IVF, kalo LO udah, tapros juga, skarang lagi parlodel + provera, trus obat2 udah banyak juga hehehe..
dulu pernah 2 kali ke dr. ivan emang dokternya baek tapi waktu itu aku mutusin LO ama dr wachyu.. skarang lagi ke dr setyabudi di tangerang..
keep writing ya.. 🙂
baca kata2 kamu di header aja bikin aku terharu, emang gak ada yang ngerti perasaan kita selain sesama wanitaTTC juga, keep fighting yaaa :))
Mbak nitya, sangat mengharukan kata-kata mbak nitya. Saya salut mbak meninggalkan semuanya including career mbak untuk pursuing baby project. Saya yakin mbak dan suami mbak akan dapet GOAL kalian yaitu happy family.
Sebagai sharing, saya udah TTC selama 8 tahun, dan sudah melalui hamper 10 insem dan 5 IVF. IVF sudah saya jalankan baik di BIC Jakarta, Surabaya, Singapore beberapa kali dan akhirnya balik lagi ke BIC Jakarta dengan alasan lebih banyak moril support secara di Negara sendiri apa-apa juga lebih gampang.
Saya penderita PCOS, dan menjalankan protocol IVF with ICSI dan PGD dengan kerjasama dengan Embriologist dari Singapore. Singkatnya karena usaha saya untuk mencapai motherhood sangat menelan biaya yang sangat besar. Secara juga saya tidak suka kalau beli obat harganya jauh beda padahal obat yang dibeli dari pabrik yang sama??? Sebagai sharing aja, Gonal-F multi dose 1050 IU itu kalo di BIC belinya Rp. 9 juta kalo di apotik Medika harganya di bawah Rp. 8 juta yah harganya beda jauh sekali… saya sudah berkali2 pesan di sana lumayan irit jadinya…. Alhamdulilah, saya barusan dapet hasil beta hcg 110 dan akan test ulang lagi 2 hari lagi….. Saya hopeful banget dapet baby blessing dari kalian semua….karena sepertinya kalau 2 hari lagi test saya positive berarti perjalanan IVF saya untuk bayi pertama sudah selesai…….hopefully ya temen2…… OK deh, nanti 2 hari lagi saya update…. Pokoknya saya hope for the best secara saya tidak merasakan symptoms apa-apa…. Talk to you gals soon.
Sorry kelupaan, Mbak nitya, apotik Medika nomernya 021.5695.7245 atau 021.7020.8551. Thanks ya sharingannya.
Dear mbak Nitya,
salam kenal ya…aku tinggal di sby. Seneng deh baca pengalaman mbak Nitya. Aku juga sudah 1 tahun menikah, tiga bulan lalu sempat hamil, tapi keguguran karena endometriosis. 1 bulan lalu sudah laparotomy untuk ambil endometriosis-nya. Sekarang terapi Tapros 3M. Semangat ya, mbak..
bump into this blog, Surprise with the story….nitya tetep semangat ya. Semoga bisa segera mengembang amanah Allah, a little baby of your own. Saling mendoakan ya:)
mbak,boleh tanya gak, dari sesudah suntik 3M dapet mens lagi setelah berapa bulan ya? aku lagi jalanin juga 3M,dari okt sampai skrg belum mens jg nih..
dear mba nitya..
mudah-mudahan gak ketinggalan bacanya, karena baru skrg aku nemuin blog mba nitya.
terharuuuu banget baca tulisan-tulisan mba nitya, ternyata pengalaman dan pengorbanan mba nitya begitu besarnya. pengalamanku belum ada apa-apanya…
Aku udah tiga tahun menikah, dan sampai sekarang belum pernah hamil, padahal tahun depan usiaku udah 35. Tapi aku akan tetap berdo’a dan berusaha.. Dulu udah pernah suntik tapros, induksi berkali-kali, tapi belum berhasil. Terakhir bulan mei lalu inseminasi di klinik Permata Hati Sardjito, tapi belom berhasil juga. Akhirnya break, nggak ke mana-mana sampai sekarang, karna harus nabung dulu buat terapi lagi.
Terus bagi pengalamannya ya mba, biar bisa buat sharing kita-kita yg punya nasib yang sama. Muda-mudahan Allah menyegerakan semua do’a dan keinginan kita. Amin…
Nitya..salam kenal yaa..
Semoga kita kuat ya menjalani TTC ini..seneng deh baca blog ini banyak info & afirmasi positif 🙂
btw kenal ma mbak betty kah ? dia kul di southampton dari fasilkom ui jg
Hey Nitya,
I have the same situation as you, can you tell me the location of the clinic? and precise cost of LO? I would really appreciate, if hyou cannot post it here, please write to my email titazgodinho@gmail.com or uzemachado@gmail.com.
Cheers,
Tita n Rico
Hi nit
Really wanna get to know u more after reading this blog.
My situation is almost same with u, and I am with dr ivan too.
Kiara
Hi Kiara,
Seneng banget ketemu temen baru lagi nih aku.. dah itu dr nya samaan lagi ya..
keep in touch ya dan kabar2i… kalau mau japri aku di nitya.anindita@gmail.com juga gpp.
Semangat ya Kiara.. semoga kita bisa berhasil ya sama treatmentnya dan cepet2 dikasih momongan 🙂